How to Get a Good Girlfriend

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"Well, I have finally done it", I thought. "I have just bought a book that is going to help me with women ­ how pathetic. I am such a worthless specimen of man that I now need guidance just to get a date? Geez!" A few years ago, I admitted to myself that I wanted help with women. So much so that I threw down some money for a book similar to this one. I was coming off of a devastating break-up. It was one of those relationships where I was considering marrying the girl. She had met my family, and they loved her. I had met her family, and they loved me. Hell, I had even passed through the icy stare of her father to the point of us heading out to walk the dogs on occasion. I was "in", wasn't I? Nope. Not even close. I had made some critical errors when relating with women that ALWAYS reverse attraction, leaving me alone, once again. So, I made it my mission to get this area "handled" ASAP. When I took the great leap into the immense amount of information about meeting women, dating and seduction, I discovered A
LOT of confusion, mixed messages and very complex theories. To say I was fascinated would be an understatement. Within a year, I emerged as one of the best at meeting and dating women in the world. That is, until "the chase" became unsatisfying and unfulfilling. In the end, I was living in a sweet pad in the Hollywood Hills, taking guys out to the clubs on a nightly basis, demonstrating before their very eyes the exact methods I used so that they could do it themselves. Was it effective at getting me laid? You bet. Was it fulfilling my wish for a relationship? Nope. Not even close.
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You see, I had become a "player" whose sole mission was to conquer women into bed, rather than relate to them as equals. What I learned was that you can't be a pretender and have meaningful and rich relationships with others. Players attract players. More often than not, the women I met were just like me ­ interested in games, followed by a little rumble in the hay. Girlfriend material? Not even close! Who you are is what you attract in the opposite sex. What you give to the world is what you get in return. Quality women would look at me and instinctively know I was a short-term guy, only looking for one thing. They knew I couldn't be trusted. You know what? They made the right decision. I had to take a long, hard, look at myself. Why was this happening? I had "mastered" these skills for attracting women, so why was I still so unhappy? You see, I got sidetracked. When I started to learn methods for being successful with women, I got seduced into "the chase". I had forgotten that what I truly wanted was comp
anionship, intimacy and love. I had taken the easier road. "Picking-up" was easy, relating to women without games was much harder, and forded me to grow up. I can see now, in retrospect, why I would gravitate towards the carrot of instant gratification. It's EASIER. But I now know that it is not the way to satisfaction and happiness. I had to change. As with everything in life, the problem was with me and not with the world. I knew that there were social skills helpful in attracting women. In fact, we are going to cover those in Chapter V of this book. What I didn't realize though was that there were some necessary life skills that I was missing. Based on my research and work around the world, MOST guys are missing these skills. And the big surprise? MOST of these skills have nothing to do with women. And ALL of them are necessary if you want to truly master your social life and meet the right women for you. They are about YOU. If you are able to embrace and incorporate these skills you will NEVER experience
dissatisfaction with women again. Why? Because you will be an attractive man, magnetizing women into your world. You will attract them rather than chase them.
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The aim of this book is to help you understand what it means to be an attractive man, and to teach you how to swiftly incorporate those skills into your life. Honestly, this is THE book I needed when I entered the dating community. How do most guys meet women? Through their social circle, right? You are at a party thrown by a friend of yours, and there are lots of people there, including this cute girl who is a friend of a friend. Next thing you know, you are talking with her, you are into her and she is into you. You have her phone number, you give her a call, you go out on a date...this scenario happens DAILY. I would even say it happens HOURLY guys! I help you master this topic in great detail in Chapter IV. Ever want to be the coolest guy in your social circle? Well, you're about to be. Also, I will even give you the simple, easy skills you need to meet women anytime and anywhere. With this ebook, you will learn those TOO. I understand how it is, you are out with friends, and there "she" is. You want to
meet her, and you want a simple plan of action to follow. I will give you that too. It is easy, and highly effective. Meeting women is NOT rocket science guys. I have learned every trick in the book, and saved only the ones that WORK. Become an attractive man by understanding the concepts I am about to outline in this book, and watch your success with women skyrocket. If I could use one word to describe the essence of these skills, it would be "autonomy". An autonomous man is one who is self-governing and independent. He appreciates and enjoys others, and he is truly LIVING his own life. He selects who he spends time with socially, and he is pursuing his career with passion and determination. He sees challenges rather than problems. He is not immune to failure or pain, but he is willing to face these things and take responsibility for where he has gone wrong. Everything in life is seen as a positive experience. He is a source of positive emotions around his friends and loved-ones. He gives and receives love
freely, and is willing to be vulnerable even if it means getting hurt. He understands how to communicate with people in such a way that is inviting and positive. He is willing to risk, and willing to risk being honest when it counts the most. He lives in his own reality, and is the sovereign over
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